#dedicate your lives to love people | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

r3m-ster · 1 year ago

Text

ahhhh. another day of hating gender.

#gender benefits none of us #don’t hate me for this though #my gender identity is important to me #as much as i think it would be better if no one even paid attention to the existence of gender #you know we could just live #not have to worry about all this #same with being lgbtqia+#and all the different phobias that people have against us #if you’re accepting #you make life easier not only for the people you accept but for yourself #its happier to love than to hate #dedicate your lives to love people #gender shouldn’t matter #in the best way possible #like #“oh you’re nonbinary? well cool welcome to the team” and then that person just uses your correct pronouns and doesn’t need to bring up-#-the fact that you’re nonbinary because that’s just an identifier that doesn’t need to be brought up to everyone #unless you yourself specifically want to tell someone #idk if this makes sense #gender #gender identity #genderqueer #genderfluid #transgender #nonbinary #rant post #but all positive #we try to be all happy and loving here #please don’t change that

9 notes · View notes

jeeyunspetrat · 1 month ago

Text

Buck woobifiers genuinely believe bucks issues are that people don’t appreciate him enough or something. when bucks actual issues are way more interesting and unhinged than that

#sibyl speaks #I swear some people just want to feel justified in their philosophy that like #doing things for other people sometimes at your own inconvenience is somehow fundamentally bad #when the entire show you guys profess to love is about people who dedicate their lives to service at great personal risk #and how that ripples out to their own lives and relationships

54 notes · View notes

rustedleopard · 4 months ago

Text

I know that it's common fanon belief to see Starlo as the younger sibling between him and Orion, but I actually like the idea of Starlo being the older brother and what it means for his family dynamic. Generally, the older sibling is expected to be the more responsible and mature sibling in the family. There's this expectation that the older sibling sets an example for the younger sibling(s) and that they'll look after the family/business once the parents get too old to do so themselves. So, what does it mean when the older sibling sorta betrays those familial expectations by behaving immaturely and ditching the family to do their own thing?

I'm trying to figure out how to put this into words in a clear and concise way, but I feel like if it's a case of Starlo being the younger brother, then there's this sorta "Ah, that's just the younger brother acting like a kid, y'know how it is. He'll grow out of it" dynamic, whereas if Starlo is the older brother, then it's more of a "Okay, he should've grown out of this by now, why's he still acting like this? Even Orion is more mature than him; what is going on?" sorta deal. (This frustration would be especially felt by Orion, who has to pick up Starlo's slack in his stead because his older brother isn't mature enough to work like he's supposed to!!!)

These are just personal musings, don't take my word as gospel! You can still do tons of interesting things with the Sunnyside family while having Starlo be the younger brother and Orion the older one. I just find myself gravitating more towards seeing Starlo as the older sibling.

#idk how much grounds i have to speak on this because I'm the youngest sibling in my family and I'm not all that close with my older sibling #(nothing crazy going on there. we just grew into different people and we don't interact much in our daily lives)#but like. with older siblings there's generally all these heavier expectations around you. you're supposed to be what your #younger sibling looks up to. you're supposed to set the bar that the rest of your siblings get measured against.#so what does it mean when--from the family's perspective--you set the bar pretty low by running off from your family/responsibilities #and dedicate your life to LARPing as a cowboy?#obviously Starlo's family loves him. but they don't seem all too supportive. Orion is annoyed by his brother's antics.#Crestina expects him to grow out of it. Solomon is the most positive about it but that's bc he thinks that Starlo did it to #indirectly save the family business.#they only seem to come around post true-pacifist when Starlo opens up to them more and they sell corn in the W.E.#there's something that's lingering on the tip of my tongue about this but i can't articulate it.#something something age =/= maturity and all that? i guess?#char: starlo #char: orion

69 notes · View notes

ddeck · 8 months ago

Text

long lived sw races must be so extra about their hobbies. imagine you live for thousand years and a century of that time you decide to dedicate to making a single big af carpet

#a neti jedi that loves crocheting so much they spend a decade to make enough ponchoes for an entire generation of initiates #your village's local funny uncle that has his own special moonshine recipe that is insanely strong #with the only downside that it takes 20 years to brew #a long lived linguist that dedicates their life to creating the most accomplished detailed research of a specific language family #and all of the dialects contained within it at the span of several thousand years making the research both synchronic and diachronic #re: my old space defunctland post the host of the spyoutube channel is from a long lived race which allows him to dedicate years #and even decades for video research which creates a lot of controversy because some people think that its an unfair advantage #archeologists coming to an excavation site to do research on the ruins of a house that was built 5000 years ago #unaware that the person that built it is still alive but moved to a neighboring town #so on so forth the world is beautiful the possibilities are endless you get it #star wars

94 notes · View notes

kavehayati · 1 year ago

Text

I support girls but NAH THIS IS REACHING “if you look carefully LIKE REALLY CAREFULLY 🤓☝️”

#the same people who would shriek like the witch of the north melting her skin off if I tell you haikaveh / kavetham isn’t implied because #if you actually look into our culture they’re being normal and not everyone having rivalry and caring about each other means they’re 💅#in fact Arabs are some of the worlds most hospitable people alhaitham letting kaveh live with him #is the most Arab thing I’ve ever seen #heck if kaveh was a stranger it wouldn’t be unusual for an Arab to let him in their house ☠️#goddamn #“if you look in the internet you can see how they’re implied!🤓☝️”#maybe if you had any respect for my culture or any desire to be educated when I’m handing this to you for free you wouldn’t be your mistake #your mums greatest mistake 🤗🤗🤗*#dora daily #if only ppl dedicated this level of detail to actual culture compared to pulling out their microscope at level 100x magnification lens to #observe robins spots under her eyes the world would be a better place 🙀#let me tell you btw this whole I hate you meh meh meh ( I’m so in love with you ) trope is the most whitest booktok millennial plant growing #basement dweller nonesense I have ever heard in my life don’t do that to my pookies ☹️#( the pookies in fact were 11 and 9 years older than her respectively )#guys my dad is the straightest man alive ( oh the trauma lowkey wish he wasn’t ) and he legit was putting his hand on his best friends lap #LMAOOO even I as a very logical person was like bro this is so zesty rn I am SO uncomfortable #anyways live laugh love boothill x Baizhu they’re the most canon things I’ve ever seen in my life #<- this is a joke btw it’s an ironic ship I saw on tiktok ☠️

57 notes · View notes

s-ccaam-era-crepe · 3 months ago

Text

ty to the people who continuously support me and love me I just. I love yall a lot <3

#camera talks #I’m going to bed right after this #but I really just wanted to say like. the hearts in my ask box really do mean something to me #and saying your giving virtual hugs and blankets etc like. it gets me through sometimes #and moo i know I say this all the time but I love you so much. genuinely my biggest supporter and you make me feel so so cared for #I don’t think there are words to express it #you all make me feel really close and warm when I realize people see me and care about me #also my irls too. he’s not on here lol but shoutout Ben. I really needed that hug #totally unprompted someone I’ve never hugged before and he just hugged me and I think he knew I needed it and yeah I did.#I really appreciated that. I know that’s what all of yall would have done too <3 #I’m still not doing 100%. I’m going to bed now hoping I can feel better we will see #but I talked about some important stuff with my mom and it went well I think and I’ve been crying all day but I’m going to make it through #I want to live and I love my life so much. I want to see everything else that’s in store for me because I want to keep living <3 #sorry if this doesn’t make sense I’m tired #okay. good night yall <33 I love you so much and thank you for everything. I know I can get through this #and I dedicate a lot of that to yall so <33

8 notes · View notes

ghostcond · 2 years ago

Text

the thing about ivan soulsinger is that during the quests where you find out that he is kidnapping the drakes, it seems to imply that he is not himself in a way. his only dialogue implies possession of some sort as he says things like "the flesh is weak" and mentions taking residence in your body. whoever or whatever is talking to you isn't the real ivan, and the real ivan might be trapped in another body somewhere since he also taunts you by saying he'll come visit you once he's taken your body. to me, this implied that you'd swap places, and you'd be stuck in ivan's body while whoever the possessor is would take yours. what would he even intend to do once he had your body and those drakes? what did he intend to do with the drakes in the first place?? and this conflict never gets resolved. upon defeat, ivan doesn't say anything. you never find out where the real ivan is or what happens to whatever is possessing him, and the real ivan's relationship with the drakes is now tarnished by this thing acting as him. if the possesor was defeated, would ivan have gotten his body back? what would happen to him afterwards, as the one of the only other living people in dragonspyre and presumably a Student? would he be able to repair his relationship with drakes after what the possessor did to them in his body? there might be a kind boy who was just befriending drakes out there, waking up to a literal ghost town years after the fact. if he even survived the impromptu exorcism. if he even got his body back after all that. and you just never get a definite answer to any of that

sorry if this is kinda lame to read. erm i just think he's kinda neat and i am gonna stare at him for a really long time

#this post is dedicated to scroongletoongle (i love your username) thanks o7 #dragonspyre was so fucked up for being like “hey one of the only living people you find here is possessed and kidnapping drakes”#“there is something using his body like a skin suit. this does not get resolved”#how long. has he been out there. possessed and how is he still alive #can i have closure. for any of it really #ghost.txt #wizard tag #wizard101

61 notes · View notes

ichig0tchi · 3 months ago

Text

I wish the vast majority of proseka fans werent so young because I have no idea what these hoes are saying. Just saw one call Luka Luka night fever cringe. That is your MOTHER and we RESPECT her in this house

#this game is fun and i would have been so obsessed w it as a teen #all of the characters are my children and i love them sm #i know the target demo is the younger audience but man. where are all the other old heads i played love live with???#all the fans talk abt is shipping or fandom drama 😭😭 i saw people saying it's so pervasive in other fandoms that you cant escape it #and clearly this is only affecting other young people fandoms since ive never seen any of it but lmfao #anyways im out of touch im out of time and im out of my head when youre (hatsune miku) not around #im probably a decade older than all yall...glad to see ur dedication to yuri tho

2 notes · View notes

araneitela · 1 year ago

Text

WHICH SYMBOLIC FRUIT ARE YOU?

Cherry. (Man, this is going to need some tag rambling; because while it's what I suspected and it's very fitting in many ways, I need to address one element).

In popular culture, cherries have come to represent sensuality, sex, and seduction. In the cult classic, Twin Peaks, Audrey Horne expresses her sexual expertise by tying a cherry stem with her tongue. "Cherry" is also used to refer to the concept of virginity: why? I don't know to be honest, but here we are. Much like the cherry, you're a sensual person who enjoys all the creature comforts the world offers. You enjoy delicious food, dynamic relationships, passionate lovemaking and stimulating conversation; however, you may also come across a touch vapid or shallow, due to your quickly fading attention when something has served its usefulness to you. To quote some man on tinder: "you're here for a good time, not a long time". You can come across, at times, slightly tart, carrying a bit of a bite to you that not everyone can handle. That’s okay: you’re an acquired taste!

Tagged: @basbousah (Thank you 🩷) Tagging: I don't tend to tag for quizzes easily but this one was actually fun, so let's harass. @immobiliter (how about Furina?) @kushtibokt @genus83 @genius81 @spiderwarden @delusionaid (Wriothesley, or Zhongli— porque no los dos? 🤭) @apocryphis (Topaz) @aventvrina @resolutepath (Elio) @daybreakrising (Blade) @astrxlfinale @kahakera @cygnor @chasersglow @scrtilegii (Jing Yuan)... and anyone else who'd like to do it, say I tagged you because I'd love to see the results!

#[ games. ] the game only works when we follow the rules; though i'll be none the wiser if they're broken. let morality be your guide.#[ this has been open in a tab since yesterday. ]#[ okay but i actually /love/ this result. BUT LET ME SPECIFY-- to those who haven't read my other post. ]#[ please read 'sex' and 'seduction' through a very old fashioned lens. very old fashioned. ]#[ and then i think it's a lot more fitting. think film noir/1940s femme fatale /instead/ of the modern femme fatale and you got it. ]#[ seductive in the way that a woman can be inherently alluring. ]#[ sex in the way that it /is/ something she engages in. but in the way that one does without overindulging at all. no promiscuity. ]#[ i'm not saying religious-type 'it means everything'. but i'll forever live by that line by blade. ]#[ “she must have sought something extraordinary. everything she does comes at a great cost.” ]#[ the thing is-- he knows she lacks fear. so i don't see 'at a great cost' being a value tied to anything because of personal risk. ]#[ or fear of chasing after it. it also means something that it comes from blade. who likely also has an interesting tie to 'fear'. ]#[ but any way that means 'at a great cost' means investment/engagement (time. effort. sacrifice?) ]#[ which shows a deep rooted dedication to something. which speaks to me of a certain passion that needs to propel something like that. ]#[ and if we take passion into the equation-- then i think that fits for how she speaks and handles everything blade and tb-related. ]#[ then i also can see 'sex' very fitting. she would; when engaging in it; be incredibly all-encompassing but not in a 'dominatrix' way. ]#[ nor a traditional 'dominant' way. but simply incredibly present. engaged. passionate. ]#[ those two things can fit incredibly next to sensuality if you simply look at it from a specific lens that isn't casual and/or modern. ]#[ outside of that... dynamic relationships? ☑️ stimulating conversation? ☑️ which PLAYS INTO THE NEXT PART. ]#[ which is /yes/ she is bored. she gets bored. you /need/ to be able to stimulate her by having something of your own to interest her. ]#[ she also wouldn't/doesn't like people who serve her every whim. no. have your own interests. ]#[ as to elaborate on an acquired taste: she isn't everyone's cup of tea. if you don't have something that interests her-- you won't... ]#[ enjoy being around her. if she doesn't /like/ you. you won't think she's fun. in /that/ she's an acquired taste. ]#[ and has a bit of a bite. ]

16 notes · View notes

moe-broey · 1 year ago

Text

*pulls out a crumpled up piece of paper*

My transfemme Fire Emblem Headcanons. Include:

> Rosado, transfemme non-binary, most likely to use neopronouns or multiple sets of pronouns (fae/faer, she/he, never let 'em know your next move)

> Forrest, has been on estrogen for years but still says "I'm a prince" if asked and insists on using he/him pronouns (may be closeted, may be in denial, may do so out of a sense of obligation, may be a case of pronouns being "indicative of but not exclusive to gender identity", may also just have an exceedingly complicated relationship with the gender)

> Loki, a shapeshifter, chooses to look Like That (and she's so based for it)

> Gullveig. Just. Everything Seidr/Heidr/Kvasir and Gullveig have going on. Is so transgender. To me

And on vibes alone

> Triandra

#fire emblem #i just think. more transfemme hcs in the world. peace and love 👍#i'm transmasc so you can take these w a grain of salt lmfao #also. very much. just the selection of charas i'm in deepest for esp feh oc wise.#i don't have a lot of fleshed out thoughts on trans triandra aside from it's just normal actually. sometimes people are just trans.#and also. like. a lot of trans people do not/did not have easy home lives. like it just makes sense to me #which is like i don't want the trans experience to be defined by suffering but also i think that's why you should have MANY dif trans hcs #like i think rosado perfectly captures trans joy and being dedicated to advocacy and social justice #meanwhile i think. forrest is in the trenches. i'm so sorry.#also the transformation of seidr into gullveig fucks w me SO HARD. i am so insane i know #but it really does feel like a trans allegory. being outed before you were ready. before you even fully knew what it meant for yourself.#and having it fuck your entire life. like she is so transgender to me #also i think any shape shifter is trans by default. ESP if they have a 'main form' they typically present as.#loki is a titted up as wide as she is tall scantly clad goth woman. on purpose.#this is. how i feel. speaking my truth. ect ect #rosado #fe forrest #fe loki #gullveig #triandra

12 notes · View notes

hawnks · 2 years ago

Text

me: wow I’m being so productive today I’ve gotten so much done I wish everyday was like this I wonder what happened to me it must be an exuberant fluke

(👆 took the correct dosage of her meds today)

#tw drugs #I got my outline finished for the story about the neopets forum #it was so exciting to write!#and something I feel like I needed to get out lol #it’s about going off the rails and trying to convince people to care about a dying relic of the internet #but really it’s about those friends we made in the early aughts of dial up and The Computer Room #those people you got to know over a period of like ten years on some weird ass niche website #your live journal neocities comment of some bizarre forum firends #and what happens if they just disapear one day becuase you never got their real name so you have no way of knowing #or the thousands of hours of dedication and love that has been wiped clean with the death of flash player #the internet is haunted with the things the people the versions of ourselves we loved #also I hung up my curtains and finished unpacking the kitchen #YAY 🥳#squawk tag

17 notes · View notes

actual-corpse · 1 year ago

Text

I'm so excited to move out....

I can't sleep😫

#bruh #i also just realized that I forgot to pack yesterday while I was off #so ill have to pack today #start some laundry #dump my ex's clothes out of my tote #unload dishwasher #pack my clothes #prep stuff for my dad to help me move #KITCHEN TABLE?! FUCK #im definitely moving the cat last to try and avoid issues with her #i need to buy cat food and food bowl #set up the gravity water for my ex's cat (just because you dont like your ex doesn't mean you abuse their pet... I fucking love his cat...*#* She's basically my baby now... seriously I have that cat spoiled lol... If I can work out a living situation where I dont have to move in*#* with my cousin.... Im GONNA adopt another cat. i love cats)#i shouldn't have too much to move since I've downsized... a lot... sold my mini-fridge 😭 made the -easy- decision to leave my furniture*#*(an old power-lift chair that no longer works. some Mainstays shelves and entertainment center - they're almost 10 years old. cost $50 and*#*are made from particle board. they've been moved 3 too many times and they're falling apart) these were hard decisions tbh #im leaving a complete set of Mainstays dishes (cheap. i dont want them. my ex needs dishes. etc)#my mind is awake with all these plans... but I have to work tonight and i need to sleep (luckily I went to bed early)#i need a shower caddy. another (dedicated) dressing gown. a Jeep Wrangler (i hate them but they can tow mid sized campers and like. if I en*#*enjoy living like I will... Maybe I'll just make it my lifestyle) I know well-off people have made unconventional living trendy. but like.*#*Im a poor and it's more viable to live in the camper my parents bought on relatively cheap campgrounds #bro

2 notes · View notes

snxpdragons · 2 years ago

Text

I really don't understand how parxies can hear watch what happens next and say its just awsten singing about how selfish he is/how he only wants money. As if thats not the exact reaction he's criticizing ...

#like yeah of course he wants money and wants his art to be profitable #everyone wants that. everyone wants to be able to make a living off of the things they love doing #and the song really reiterates this too. people only want his art on their terms- if he has the 'right' attitude about it #and doesnt complain about it #not to mention the fact that the song is also pretty blatantly in regard to his previous label stealing his art and not paying them #its so crazy to me how people insist theyre waterparks fans and spend so much time complaining about the directions awsten takes w his art #and the things he chooses to talk about in his music #like yes sure your faves arent immune to criticism but if thats all youre gonna do why do ya bother? why dedicate so much time to something #that clearly only makes you upset?#anyway. thats just me #i could go on for days really #txt.exe

5 notes · View notes

mister13eyond · 2 years ago

Text

i love writing bc my brain is like "what, finish your multiple wips based around a ship you love and care for that you have clearly thought out continuations for? no. you're going to write about your oc being a surrogate parent to giorno giovanna"